Amidst familial expectations and societal biases, a young woman’s «family trip» with her in-laws takes an unexpected turn.
Struggling against perceptions of class and etiquette, she confronts a stark choice with profound implications.
I (F26) went on a «family trip» with my in-laws 2 weeks ago. MIL always thought that I am a bit «ignorant» and «backward» and that just because I come from a lower class family (compared to hers) that I have no «etiquette».
Upon arriving at the hotel, they arranged for a dinner outing at a posh restaurant.
My husband deliberately kept me in the dark, informing me at the last minute after he had already dressed.
When I inquired about his plans, he casually mentioned that he and the family were dining out, but I wasn’t invited.
His reasoning? His mother «assumed» that my unfamiliarity with the cuisine and dining etiquette at such a place warranted my exclusion, deeming it better for me to stay in and dine at the hotel.
Without protest, I allowed him to leave and promptly packed my bags, catching the first flight back home.
Upon learning of my departure, my husband was beside himself, bombarding me with calls.
He accused me of acting irrationally and ungratefully, alleging that I had embarrassed him in front of his family, despite his fervent pleas for me to join the trip.
Our heated exchange culminated in him resorting to the silent treatment upon his return home. Additionally, his family indirectly criticized me on Facebook for my actions.
The story was shared online. The woman asked netizens if she overreacted in this situation, but users deliberately agreed she was a ’good guy’ here.
Another user wrote a long comment about the whole situation:
First, they tried to just invite your husband without you.
Rude. He shouldn’t have to beg them & definitely shouldn’t have told you that he did, as if he deserves a cookie for that, or it excuses his later behavior.
They openly disrespect you on the trip & plan a family dinner, purposely leaving you out because you are too low class to appreciate it. One, that’s extremely low-class behavior from them.
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